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Welcome to my blog,my friend.This is writer Ada Aba's chinese blog with personal ideas from the east and west,What do you want to know about China?

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I am a bookworm


I am a bookworm.I am interested in reading and writing a book.

I started to read when I was only five years old. Since then, I have had a habit to read books whenever I have spare time. At home, I have two bookshelves full of books. There are also books on my desk and even on the floor.And thousands of ebooks on my laptop. I can say my room is a room of book, and I am a little ‘worm’ sitting inside it.

Really reading began with my father. He brought me and taught me unusual things:well,he told me that he was sure about there are aliens in the world. So I like reading in order to discover the world as more as possible. Reading books is just like traveling in a sea of knowledge. Every time when I read a book, I am always fascinated by the interesting stories and knowledge in it. For example, from books,I met God,from books,I improve my english,from books I also learned more about the western culture. I enjoy being a bookworm.The feeling just like a quote comes from the movie You’ve Got Mail, of all places:
 “When you read a book as a child, it becomes a part of your identity in a way that no other reading in your whole life does.”
Because really, it’s true. All those moments, they shaped our imagination, our expectations.  They shaped us.

I like many kinds of books, including selp-help,Literature & Fiction,culture & Social Sciences,Cookbooks&Food,Computers & Technology and so on. My favorite book is Gone with the wind.It tells me we have to be strong in hard time in life. Find and appreciate someone who loves you for who you really are. Therefore, this book is one of the best book for woman that I have read.

I am not only enjoy reading, but also enjoy writing, and I often share them with other people on my blogg. I’ve just written  a lot of single articles which is about the eastern and the western culture, and I would like to share more of it day by day.

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About me


Hello,my friend,welcome to my blog. Nice to meet you here.
It is really a great honor to have this opportunity to introduce myself here.

I am a confident,elegant and cheerful lady come from China,My name is Ada .Writing is my passion. Without it, I’d never be able to express myself. I write poetry, stories, Diary-Current comments. anything that comes to mind. It’s my release from the day. I NEED to write. I want to write.I could not stop thinking so I could not stop writing.  It’s my destiny to write. I love it and could not live a happy life without it.

I mostly care about people and the future, Most of my articles are about social events and human sustainable development.I always wanted to be a great Realism writer, Like William Dean Howeils,Henry James and Mark Twain, they are the models of Realism literature. They do not write about middle-class youth whom well dressed and gentle, but the workers, farmers, ambitious  businessmen, homeless people, prostitutes and ordinary soldiers. Truly describes the local customs, and excavated the inner life of the people.

Mark Twain is familiar by Chinese people, because his work is incorporated into part of the students' textbooks. And what struck me most about his work that I had was His political satire Filled with nuanced observations About the world around him.There's some unexpected irony.Such as something about democratic elections.

Of course, I am nowhere close to these people, yet. I am just someone who does some writing. But my dream is still alive.

I always want to make new friends with  the same interests or opinions.Your story and comments are always welcome to write down in my  blog.Have a good day!


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Astrology:Am I a typal Leo ?(占星术:我是个典型的狮子?)




Sometimes people take a long time to discover themselves. I am nearly 33 years old, and finally found that I was not a fossil, but a woman with a typical "Leo personality".

I read some statements in a magazine about"Leo personality", I thought that the characteristics are general enough to be applied to any person... especially those horoscopes, such nonsense!But I found that too many people around me like to discuss this issue.  A lot of people of the same astrological sign have the same character.My cousin said she contacted several Leo, I was one of them, are very emotional, and suddenly want to do one thing, they will immediately warming up. She also said that she contacted the Virgo people who usually have got a little cleanliness. I disagree, I know that the horoscope is a statistical technique, a human character classification statistically. Through the birthday and place, to arrive at a unique astrological chart, and after analysis, will be aware of the characteristics of a person's character. But I think it is not applicable to any person, since the use of statistics, it is only relative data.

Until today I found a description of the article of Leo women, God, that is, describing my own thing. I do not know the constellation statistically whether fit you or not, but according to the following description, I found the Leo character is the best description of my own character. Very interesting.

For example:

"Leo people do not want to waste a little energy and time, they also need desperately to do the winner. Born in this way: disdain all the things,they must take the initiative in a love , in the business world, family life and friendship also . "

Indeed, this is the essence of my personality, strong, brave, and unwilling to admit defeat. I always want to win, want to be a useful person.

"Leo women have  noticed that today's virgin is hard to find,but still hope that her husband is a virgin. Once she know he had sex with another woman before, she might be unhappy,no passion in their sex life,though she do not say anything.  "

Well, this seems shy to admit for me, I used to be so, especially when I was a virgin , But my ex is not a virgin. when the situation happened,I was uncomfortable. Sometimes I think I am a perfectionist, require perfect on my own and also others.

" When the Leo's boyfriend sometimes focus on their work or activities while naturally decreased attention toward her, Yet ,Leo woman can not tolerate the slightest neglect. "

This Sentence is more interesting, in fact, I know I am sensitive, especially when I engage in a intimate relationships, I want to attract more attention,the more the better. Once I feel ignored, I felt uncomfortable, I will complain, cry, or lose my temper.

This article also talked about the character traits of the pairing for Leo women.

It has  inspired me to further develop my abilities to manage myself, it gave me a ray of hope. I remembered Helen. Keller who wrote "If you give me three days light", I found that I understand her desires,I try to discover myself,this feeling of desire just like a blind man who looking for bright which will not present forever,it is so eager. The world is so wonderful, the truth is there, the essence is unchanged. Let us  find one pair of bright eyes to discover them.

有时候人们发现自己的过程显得非常漫长。我今年接近三十三,终于发现了自己原来不是什么怪人,也不是什么化石,而是一个具有典型狮子座性格的女人。

我以前对一些杂志上陈述的所谓狮子座性格并不感冒,觉得他们在泛泛而谈,说得没有一些特色,套在任何人身上都似乎适用。特别是那些星座运程什么的,一派胡言。但是我发现身边实在太多人去讨论这个问题,同一星座的人很多都具有相同的性格特征。我表姐说她接触了好几个狮子座的人,我是其中之一,都是非常的情绪化,突然想去做一件事情,就会马上热乎起来。她还说到了她接触的好些个处女座人士都有洁癖等等。我当时不以为然,我知道星座占卜是一种统计学,一种将人类性格特徵分类的统计学。透过出生年、月、日、时间和地点,便可得出一个独一无二的占星图,而经过分析,便可得知一个人的性格特徵。但是不可能对任何人都适用,既然运用的是统计学,那就只能是相对的数据。

直到今天我发现了一篇描述狮子座女性的文章,天啊,那就是在描述我自己嘛。我不知道星座统计学是否对您是用,但是根据如下的描述,我发现了狮子座性格特征是对我自己的性格特征的最好的描述。非常有趣。

例如:

“狮子座人也不愿浪费一点精力时间,他们也要拼命去做胜利者。他们生来就傲视一切,在任何一场恋爱中都要主动。在生意场上、家庭生活中以及友情关系方面皆如此。”

这的确是我的性格本质,坚强,勇敢,不愿服输。力争上游,总是想要赢,想要做一个有用的人。

“狮子座女性明知当今童男贞女已不多了,却仍希望自己是男方的第一个女人。一旦知道对方也和别的女人交欢过,女方嘴上不说什么,心里醋海掀波,结果性生活时也没有什么热情了。”

嗯,这个好像不太好意思说,我也曾经是这样,特别是当我还是处女的时候,对对方不是处男的情况的确是不舒服的。有时候觉得自己是个完美主义者,对人对事对自己都要求尽善尽美。

“男方有时专注于自己的工作或活动,自然对女方的关注就削弱了一点。狮子座女人是不能容忍半点被忽视的。”

这句更有意思了,其实我知道自己就是个敏感的人,在男女关系中,我想要受到注意,越多越好。一旦感觉被忽略,我就觉得不舒服,就会做出比较大的反应。

这一篇文章还具体讲述了和狮子座女性配对的星座的性格特征。

我又进一步了解了自己,这让我看到了一丝曙光。我记得海伦。凯勒写的《假如给我三天光明》,我发现我了解自己的欲望,就好像一个盲人在寻找那永远不存在三天的光明一样热切。世界是那么的奇妙,真相是存在的,本质是不变的。让我们拥有一双发现光明的眼睛吧。


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My pet ——How to keep interesting Guinea Pig



Guinea pigs make wonderful pets, loved by their owners.I love guinea pig,because they love to hug as me.

Guinea pigs chew in order to keep their teeth trim and healthy. Since their teeth don't fall out, they will keep growing and growing unless they have something to gnaw on.Unlike rabbits and other rodents, they need vitamin C from a food source or can actually die of scurvy!This is the most important key to keep them. I sometimes treat them a melon, they love it so much.My  little piggies do not picky at all.They are  fans of carrots and vegetable too. We've learned, They eat anything green that we gave them.

Dutch pig like only crowded together,seem they are always trying to hug.Very close,make me feel warm.I am very interested inthem,In order to know more,I did some research about this habit of them.Oh,that is  because they do this more than just living together,That is their nature,when they live in a wild state, can increase the discovery of the probability of the enemy. they crowd together so that they can use  slight sounds to communicate with each other.

There is a vedio I took when they were hugging and eating,very interesting(click it and you will see):




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Another Mount Rushmore?Even higher than the Statue of Liberty?



Ada have been checked about the Jade mountain in my dream(I wrote an article about my dream at http://adaaba.blogspot.com/2012/03/is-this-my-utopia.html),are they really exist?

That is a dream after all,it could be the mixture from real life.Hard to find the exactly one in life,but could find some Approximate items.Such as:

Wow,the awesome Mount Rushmore:

The Mount Rushmore Monument as seen from the v...What I've seem in my dream kinda like  Mount Rushmore,but Goddess of Mercy's(Avalokitesvara) face instead of  presidents' face,and, Composed by the cream-colored granite or jade or even ore.I believe what I've seem in my dream  make of jade.because they look so Smooth, crystal,I prefer they are jade too.Haha.

There are some  Approximate items out there,and you will surprise.Just people seem like to cave the stone into a huge whole body instead of the only face.The world's greatest Avalokitesvara‘s statue was builted in my hometown(Foshan city,Nanhai Region, close to Hong Kong). Chung Yeung Festival each year, Ada will climb to the highest top, to pray to the goddess of happiness in the coming year.

The above is the world's largest Avalokitesvara on the land . In Sanya, Hainan, have builted the largest offshore Avalokitesvara, The same color as I dreamed.The statue of Goddess of Mercy's  is 15 meters higher than the Statue of Liberty, 108 m high.It is the world's largest      statue.


Chinese people are industrious nation in the world, they builted the Great Wall, Terracotta Warriors and Horses, Beijing Summer Palace,  Suizhou Marquis Yi of Zeng bells, Mawangdui in Hunan, So,What are your favorite historical interest in China?

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My dream,my Utopia?



I made a very interesting dream, have to write down. Maybe you can tell me why I made this dream,probable you had made this kind of dreams before.

I made it on 13th March.I think it could be a pity if I forget it,I am so happy inside the dream.

I went to a small village of Dalian(not really went there before,not sure how it looks)that day, with some simple equipment.my bag and some clothes. I seem to have encountered a robbery on the road, but passed quickly.I Could not remember how I handle it.I did not lose anything, I also met the kind-hearted young woman of the farm. She treated me some wonderful food from their hometown.
When I went out of her house after dinner, stood on A Lane.Through sereval bamboos,I saw the jade-like mountain,It made me so stunned,it turned out to be huge statues of the jade, close to the milk-white jade texture. I asked her  this kind of mountain whether still a lot or not? As if she told me, this is a natural formation, and later people artificially carved them into statues(figure of Buddha),People made them even more smooth because of carving. I am Very shocking, as if the peaks are generally huge, and the carvings of the Buddha in the mountains look awesome,with smile.Admire my own imagination now,these views could be only seem in the dreams.

These mountains and waters much more beautiful than Guilin. Because It was a quiet, elegant, with somewhat the feeling of traveling in the watercolor painting. It did not look like Guilin’s strong painting.

Most of the houses are low storey red-brick bungalow. bushes and small trees around. Everywhere looks like a picture. Across such a small mountain, quiet villages and hillside around the mirror-like lake.

The other places are very peaceful and gentle. But unfortunately wherever I go ,I always wondering where is my package. I do sometimes forgetful, which reflects in a dream. Green through quiet trails makes me want to shoot, but my camera always seem to be lost. Dreaming sometimes is very strange,Your behavior will be out of control.

I went to the village's center,  children  were playing football on the lawn. I felt like going back to my own childhood, I saw that they are innocence and cute. Later I went to the banks of the river, some of the elderly and the youth gathered here to have fun and relax, they stood on the shore of the open space or under a large banyan tree, and began to sing, dance or chat, everything seemed so harmonious, so warm.

I did not expect my favorite place come in the dream, this w as really my utopia.

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My Dating Persona Test



The Sonnet: 1839 Mulready oil painting in V&A ... 
After I got the result of this test,
I was moved enough ,could hardly repress my tears. 


That is me,exactly me,Ada is going to share it with me,I know about myself not only from this test though:


TThe Sonnet

Deliberate Gentle Love Dreamer (DGLD)

Romantic, hopeful, and composed. You are the Sonnet. Get it? Composed?
Sonnets want Love and have high ideals about it. They’re conscientious people, caring & careful. You yourself have deep convictions, and you devote a lot of thought to romance and what it should be. This will frighten away most potential mates, but that’s okay, because you’re very choosy with your affections anyway. You’d absolutely refuse to date someone dumber than you, for instance.
Lovers who share your idealized perspective, or who are at least willing to totally throw themselves into a relationship, will be very, very happy with you. And you with them. You’re already selfless and compassionate, and with the right partner, there’s no doubt you can be sensual, even adventurously so.
You probably have lots of female friends, and they have a special soft spot for you. Babies do, too, at the tippy-top of their baby skulls.

I admit that I tend to be  a Perfectionist ,Everything demands high quality. With higher self-confidence, I think my plasticity is better.But sometimes let the attention  fully engaged in a relationship, I guess some people do not appreciate it,I am sure I have not met the right one yet. But I will meet my Mr.right sooner or later.The world is so big, a lot of opportunities here.Chinese people believe serendipity.They believe that God will give each person  a partner, will sooner or later appear in your life.Somewhat similar to this, and some Christians believe that the gift of God too.

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The source of my name



My father named me: Lian(This is pinyin.In Chinese typing is 莲,also look like lotus,isn't it?), which in English means lotus.He wish me follow the example of the Pink Lotus to be a man who rises unsullied from mud.

Admiration of the Chinese people on Lian(lotus)usually will be: "The lotus , high quality, dedication."Lotus flower means great mercy in the Buddhism. In particular, lotus flowers(Lian) are not stained by muddy water. It symbolizes purity and innocence.

There are a lot of poems and articles praising of the lotus.There is a  rememberable one,"Ode to the Lotus Flower"which come from textbook which praises the Lotus as "gentle men's flowers."


予独爱莲之出淤泥而不染,濯清涟而不妖,中通外直,不蔓不枝,香远益清,亭亭净植,可远观而不可亵玩焉。
Lotus Flowers in Ritan Park Lotus

Translate as :I just love lotus because she grows in mud, yet never contaminates with it. She floats on waving water, yet never dances with it. The branchless stem is hollow inside but straight outside.
 Her faint fragrance reaches far and she stands erect in water, fair and graceful.



In Religion, God,our Father will accepts us if we are being pure and faultless,such as looking after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep ourselves from being polluted by the world.

I  Guess God will accept me so far?No criminal record, no Credit Card Debt.I also enjoy the volunteering time, I attended the home for the aged of our village for cleaning and sending them gifts what I made myself. I often chat with them and make them laugh.I think China is an aging society, many elderly people need care.

So what is your source of your name?



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The most important person in my life




My mother is a thrifty and industrious woman. 
She never buys expensive or fancy dresses for herself;  She never goes to luxurious restaurants to enjoy expensive meals. She merely eats a humble meal outside when she is too busy. She lives a busy yet simple life, without any complaints. As soon as she comes back from workplace, she sets about doing housework: sweeping the living room and bedreooms or cleaning the furniture, and putting everything in good order. Besides, she prepares nice dishes for us to eat. She seems to be on the go all the time. As she has been very busy working hard every day, she looks older than she really is. Her face is wrinkled, and her hair has turned silver white. But she looks as cheerful and happy as ever. 
Often she says to us, " A penny saved is a penny earned." What a piece of good advice this is! I never forget it and always bear it in my mind. This advice of hers will always serve as a guide to my action. My mother is great indeed, and I always feel proud of her.

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My job





I born in the hometown of Bruce Lee.called FoShan ,this city may also show in the movie of IP MAN,FoShan beside Guangzhou which is the southern door of china.

I have two main job in china,I am a chinese teacher teaching kids from primary school,I have been worked in this way for nearly 6 years,this year I begin to teach kids at home by myself,and get paid from their parents,that make me more easy to arrange time on writing.This year I start to work as freelance writer,I wish my works came into movies some day.

My life is full and fantastic.

Chinese is my major and specialty,this is a amazing language,I am good at Madarin and some local Chinese languages such as Cantonese.I love to use it to write or teach kidds.
 I learn from job,so I am also good at Education about kidds.I would like to discusses warmly about Chinese culture,education. history, calligraphy and arts .etc.






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My miracle


A  stranger .I don't know who he is ,but he is the most important person in my life,without him ,I even can not write here,what did he do?....

when I was a child.One day ,I was playing on a boat,and then i tried to reach the bank,but I slipped and fell overboard by accident,then I felt Terrible suffocate,I could not hear a word .such as:A girl overboard!At the meanwhile ,a wide hand Pulled me out of the water and I was safe, he left so quickly,I can felt that he was a kindness uncle,but I could not see him clearly.


 Many years passed by,I still remember him.He saved my life,what a miracle.I will bless him always.

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My hobby




Well,on weekdays I often reading,writing or do some sports. 



On weekend I am more like  do some outdoor activities,for example :go to Museum\watching Exhibition\Hear lectures\shopping\or other Mountain, forest and beach activities .such as canyoning, caving, climbing, hill walking, hunting, kayaking, and rafting. So many.depend on our Imagination...


On holiday,travelling is always my first choice ,because it's a sweet way for me to rich knowledge and make friends. And  I am sure I would be a best parnter to go hiking,because I am Energetic ,I can walk whole day without a rest...so Life is like a box of chocolates...you never know what you're gonna get.Let's go...

Some of my pictures when I having fun!














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