Ada Aba

Living in the information explosion era of peace,  the values ​​of the people have rapid change, people began to become the substance, efficiency, getting a little numb feelings of love, unfailing love seems to become a myth, peopleonly occasionally in movies, novels,hard see the situation for love devotion. But today I saw the news I was shocked, in the July 20th shootings in Colorado, three men shot and killed by protected their girlfriends.


The three men Jon Blunk, Matt McQuinn and Alex Teves used their bodies to shield their girlfriends when James Eagan Holmes opened fire on the crowd at the Aurora Cineplex.

 I felt shocked Moving by so many men were instinctively willing to die to protect women they felt responsible for and love for.

Matt McQuinn,  dove on top of his girlfriend,  took the bullet that could have killed her.This is their pic below.




Jon Blunk (in the red shirt below) took his girlfriend, Jansen Young, to the movie in part because they were celebrating her graduation from veterinary school. Blunk is an ex-sailor with hopes of rejoining the military to become a Navy SEAL. He protected her with his body, and he died.



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Alex Teves (in the beach picture below) shoved his girlfriend, Amanda Lindgren, to the floor as bullets flew all around them.he never hit the floor for himself,beacuse he want to save his girlfriend.






I think they use their blood and life to proved and remmind  people that:ture love can created Miracle，love give people Magic power.when they face the death,they brave enough to use their own body to block any damage from outside，leave the safe to their lover.


Perhaps only the deeds of these blood enough to remind people's numb nerves , love is so great, not out of reach, it is on our side, in each corner, and it could be explosived. We should chase and worship the ture love.

I have a question for you, what do you live for? In fact, alive for hundreds of thousands of reasons, some people live for getting money, getting happiness and bitterness from there, some people live for enjoying life, enjoying happiness; some people live for others, they do not want to live for their own ,but for all other people who they know, or even who they do not  know, their survival, perhaps driving the other, after all, we are not a person; I live for encountering, in the long long life, I often inadvertently encounter the good people and things, beautiful people and things far more than the ugly people and things. This allows me to get inspired, get the courage and get the strength and also a good reason to live in.

April 15, 2012,what I met.

Today is Sunday and I just returned from Shamian Island's Christian Church, It is the end of Mass,I was walking on the street of Shamian, along the way, my girlfriend and I found a few interesting foreigners, including a woman pushing a baby carriages, and there was a happy chinese baby girl, and another man holding a cute chinese little girl with thick legs. On the road, the loving father want to take a photo for the little daughter,ask her: "smile." The little girl seemed very shy,shook her  two little pigtail, very cute, very happy.

Later we went into the Ruth restaurant, my girlfriend was very curious, but courageous,she went to their table and talked to them,so she later understood their situation, and took some photos for them with her half-baked English.

In fact,they are kind-hearted people come from the United States.

This  American gentlemen took the initiative to mention this little daughter  was the seventh chinese child he adopted, she has been eight years old, but she might have never grown up,still keep her three-year-old look, which is why her legs look so stout. However, this did not affect her happiness, she has such a loving father.



This  American lady also made people moving, she is very proud and happy, because she adopted a chinese child with cleft lip. Cleft lip may not strange for people, because the actress Faye Wong's daughter, who is Cleft lip also, "cleft lip", also known as Quezui, hare-lip, oral and maxillofacial common congenital malformations. An average of 700 babies per birth, there is a risk of cleft lip. I thought this baby is unfortunate but also fortunate.

In these circumstances, children, father, mother, it seemed solidified in my tearful eyes, In long-term busy and rushing times, I forgot moved, and also forget the beautiful. Thanked them, I encountered beauty again, thanked them ,from the outside of the church, I accepted the baptism of love again.

Just because there is such a great love, making the good reasons for people living in the world.

我有一个问题想问您，您为什么而活着？其实人活着有千千万万个理由，有的人活着一辈子就是为了自己得到金钱，在钱里得到快乐和辛酸，或者有的人为了自己享受生命，享受快乐；有的人或者为了别人而活着，他们觉得人有时候不只是为了自己活着的，是为了一切认识，甚至不认识的人活着的，他们的生存，也许正带动着其他，毕竟，我们不是一个人；我活着是为了邂逅，在长长的一生中，我经常不经意地邂逅生活中美好的人和事，而美好的人和事远远多于丑恶的人和事。这使得我得到感召，得到勇气，得到力量。

2012年4月15日，我邂逅了什么。

今天是星期天，我刚从广州沙面岛的基督教堂结束了弥撒，走在沙面大街上，沿路上我和我女朋友发现了几位有趣的外国人，其中一位女士推着一辆婴儿车，上面坐着一个快乐的中国女婴，另一位男士挽着一个腿部非常粗壮的中国小女孩。在路上，这位慈爱的父亲还要给小女儿拍照：smile。小女孩非常扭捏地摇摇两根小辫子，非常可爱，非常快乐。

后来我们一起进入了露丝餐馆，我的女朋友非常好奇，勇敢地过去和他们攀谈，用她那半生不熟的英语了解到他们的情况，并且拍下了照片。

原来他们都是来自美国的善心人。

这位男士主动提及这个小女儿是他领养的第七个中国孩子，她已经八岁了，但是看起来她可能永远不会长高了，她现在还是三四岁的样子，这是为什么她是腿部看起来那么粗壮的原因。然而这丝毫不影响她的快乐，她有那么一位充满爱心的父亲。

这位领养女婴的外国妈妈也同样让人感动，她显得非常自豪和快乐，因为她收养了一个有唇腭裂的孩子。大家对唇腭裂也许不会陌生，因为女明星王菲的女儿就是这样的。唇腭裂即“兔唇”，又称缺嘴、豁嘴，是口腔颌面部常见的先天性畸形。平均每生700个婴儿中就有1个患唇腭裂。我想这个女婴即是不幸也是幸运的。

此情此景，孩子们，父亲，母亲似乎凝固在我的泪眼婆娑中，长期的忙碌和奔波使得我忘却了感动，忘却了美好。感谢他们，使我再次邂逅美好，感谢他们，使我从教堂外得到爱的洗礼。正是因为有如此伟大的爱，使得人们活着有充分的理由。

I met the girlfriend in October last year, another city near me. When I saw her in the video, a pair of huge eyes embedded in the high frontal, a little dark skin. Appears to be a very outspoken girl. She was on the verge of despair, because her ex who has been married, still pursuing her, and even more incredible was that she got in touch with his wife by phone, His wife seemed very helpless  for his actions. It is said that this man had cheated a few women (by rip-off,includes her money). I could see this matter dealt a serious blow to her, be seen from her depressed mood, she felt bad luck, she said what she ask for actually very simple, just want  a man to be love within  a real life.

But then twists and turns, a bit weird, she got a friend's advice,went to the dating site,hoping to meet her Mr.right someday. she did not know how to operate, just went to a website and sign up.

More incredible is that she basically does not speak English, but she wanted to marry a guy from oversea.

Interesting is her photo. When her showed off her photo,Several girls thought that  the photo could not show her great personality, She just used her face-shot with a webcam. A pair of innocent eyes looked very confused. Interesting that An older sister told her more directly::"I think  your photo will provoke a liar, because your eyes look confused,and you seem completely lost way.I advise you use the other one. "Although she was still willing to accept our views, but we worried that she might experience a very long time searching, after all, she seemed to have no idea, unprepared, but also wanted to go to the other side of the ocean to find her husband, which was really a bit ... Yet, I was still very much appreciated her frank, sincere and courageous.

However, I recently heard some of her messages. Last night I contacted her. We said hello to each other and she began to talked about her stuff. She is preparing for the  fiance reunion now. This made me stunned. What makes this love across time and space, also across borders so easily?

This should not be regarded as news, the magic is her fiance, a Chinese-Americans who working in the U.S. government, flied to China to meet her after 4days online chatting.What make you feel more surprise is：At this exciting time for the dawn ,they fell in love at first sight, just like all of the love story of a happy ending, they decided to spend their life together,forever.

We also talked about her picture, she was sure that really only put one on dating site. She said: "He likes my true face, a pair of lost big eyes and very sincere. Some people put the artistic photos, or making interesting pose what make him feel not reliable." Very interesting, people sometimes always thinking about things too complicated,ask for  too many skills .From her example can be seen, in fact, do not have any skills is the real best skills.My girlfrien's genuine and real attracted a  gentleman who far across the ocean ,and it became the bond of their marriage.

No matter by what means,  some people make their best side show in front of others, even the ideal side, while not the most real. People see only the best side of your strong performance. However, marriage is not about ideals, Need more true and plain. Because after all the romantic prelude, we are faced with a flat  and true life. The married life is not dressed in a gorgeous robe, but eat salted fish and Chinese cabbage together in stalemate but still enjoyable. This life is precisely what she wanted,also most Chinese girls want. So she has completed her very early wish.

So,  very interesting.

This article in chinese:我遇到这位女朋友是在去年的10月份左右，她在我附近的另一个城市工作。当时我看到了视频中的她，一双巨大的眼睛镶嵌在高高的额骨上，有点黝黑的皮肤。看起来是个非常直率的女孩。她当时正在绝望的边缘，因为她前面那位已经娶了老婆了，还在追求她，更为不可思议的是她和她的老婆都通过电话了，而且他的老婆对他的行为非常无奈。据说这名男子还先后骗过几个女人的钱（包括她的钱）。我可以看出来这件事情对她的打击很大，从她沮丧的语气中看出来，她觉得自己运气太差，她说她其实要求非常简单，只是想要一个男人好好过日子。

不过后来是峰回路转，有点不可思议，她得到了朋友的提点，想到了到互联网上面征婚，她也不知道如何操作，只是通过朋友给的一个比较流行的网站上面注册了。

更为不可思议的是，她基本上不懂英语，竟然想到嫁到国外去。

有趣的是她用的照片。当她把照片晒出来的时候，我们好几个女孩都觉得她放的照片不是很有个性，就是用摄像头把一张脸拍下来。照片那双无辜的大眼睛显得非常迷茫。一位比较年长的姐妹更加直接地告诉她，你这样的照片会招惹骗子，因为你的目光显得非常茫然，一副不知所谓的样子。虽然她还是乐于接受意见，但是我们大概心里面都会觉得她可能会经历很长一段时间的寻寻觅觅，毕竟她显得毫无头绪，毫无准备，而且还想去大洋彼岸找丈夫，这真有点......不过我心里还是非常赞赏她的直率，真诚和勇敢的。

然而不久前我听到了她的一些消息。于是昨天晚上我和她联系上了。我们互问近况。她原来正在筹备和美国的未婚夫的团聚。这个真让我愕然了。是什么让这跨越时空，跨越国界的事情轻而易举地发生了？

这本来就不算是什么新闻，神奇的是她的未婚夫，一位在美国政府工作的华人，竟然才和她在网上聊了四天就飞过来看她了，这一激动人心的时刻到来之际，他们一见钟情，并跟所有的爱情故事的美满结局一样，他们决定相守一生。

我们又谈到了她的照片，她确定说自己其实只放了一张。她说：”他喜欢我真实的面孔，一双迷茫的大眼睛非常真诚。网上好些个放艺术照，或者扭捏作态的让他感觉很不可靠。“很有趣，人们有时候总是把寻找伴侣的事情想得过于复杂，过于技巧化，从她的例子可以看出来，其实没有任何的技巧才是真正的技巧。我这位女朋友的真诚和真实感动了远在大洋彼岸的绅士，并成为他们婚姻的纽带。

不管通过什么途径，有的人会把自己最好的一面展示在别人面前，甚至是最理想的一面，而不是最真实的一面。人们看到的仅仅是你极力表现的最理想的一面。然而婚姻生活不是谈理想，有的是真实和平淡。因为一切的浪漫前奏过后，我们面对的是平平凡凡，真真实实，相濡以沫的生活。这种夫妻生活不是一袭华丽的睡袍，而是吃咸鱼和白菜也有滋有味的相持相守的过程。而这种生活恰恰是她想要的，也是大部分中国女人想要的。于是她找到一个和她过日子，并相守终身的人。

所以,这事情非常有趣。