Omg，find love in 4days?天啊，四天就邂逅爱情

I met the girlfriend in October last year, another city near me. When I saw her in the video, a pair of huge eyes embedded in the high frontal, a little dark skin. Appears to be a very outspoken girl. She was on the verge of despair, because her ex who has been married, still pursuing her, and even more incredible was that she got in touch with his wife by phone, His wife seemed very helpless  for his actions. It is said that this man had cheated a few women (by rip-off,includes her money). I could see this matter dealt a serious blow to her, be seen from her depressed mood, she felt bad luck, she said what she ask for actually very simple, just want  a man to be love within  a real life.

But then twists and turns, a bit weird, she got a friend's advice,went to the dating site,hoping to meet her Mr.right someday. she did not know how to operate, just went to a website and sign up.

More incredible is that she basically does not speak English, but she wanted to marry a guy from oversea.

Interesting is her photo. When her showed off her photo,Several girls thought that  the photo could not show her great personality, She just used her face-shot with a webcam. A pair of innocent eyes looked very confused. Interesting that An older sister told her more directly::"I think  your photo will provoke a liar, because your eyes look confused,and you seem completely lost way.I advise you use the other one. "Although she was still willing to accept our views, but we worried that she might experience a very long time searching, after all, she seemed to have no idea, unprepared, but also wanted to go to the other side of the ocean to find her husband, which was really a bit ... Yet, I was still very much appreciated her frank, sincere and courageous.

However, I recently heard some of her messages. Last night I contacted her. We said hello to each other and she began to talked about her stuff. She is preparing for the  fiance reunion now. This made me stunned. What makes this love across time and space, also across borders so easily?

This should not be regarded as news, the magic is her fiance, a Chinese-Americans who working in the U.S. government, flied to China to meet her after 4days online chatting.What make you feel more surprise is：At this exciting time for the dawn ,they fell in love at first sight, just like all of the love story of a happy ending, they decided to spend their life together,forever.

We also talked about her picture, she was sure that really only put one on dating site. She said: "He likes my true face, a pair of lost big eyes and very sincere. Some people put the artistic photos, or making interesting pose what make him feel not reliable." Very interesting, people sometimes always thinking about things too complicated,ask for  too many skills .From her example can be seen, in fact, do not have any skills is the real best skills.My girlfrien's genuine and real attracted a  gentleman who far across the ocean ,and it became the bond of their marriage.

No matter by what means,  some people make their best side show in front of others, even the ideal side, while not the most real. People see only the best side of your strong performance. However, marriage is not about ideals, Need more true and plain. Because after all the romantic prelude, we are faced with a flat  and true life. The married life is not dressed in a gorgeous robe, but eat salted fish and Chinese cabbage together in stalemate but still enjoyable. This life is precisely what she wanted,also most Chinese girls want. So she has completed her very early wish.

So,  very interesting.

This article in chinese:我遇到这位女朋友是在去年的10月份左右，她在我附近的另一个城市工作。当时我看到了视频中的她，一双巨大的眼睛镶嵌在高高的额骨上，有点黝黑的皮肤。看起来是个非常直率的女孩。她当时正在绝望的边缘，因为她前面那位已经娶了老婆了，还在追求她，更为不可思议的是她和她的老婆都通过电话了，而且他的老婆对他的行为非常无奈。据说这名男子还先后骗过几个女人的钱（包括她的钱）。我可以看出来这件事情对她的打击很大，从她沮丧的语气中看出来，她觉得自己运气太差，她说她其实要求非常简单，只是想要一个男人好好过日子。

不过后来是峰回路转，有点不可思议，她得到了朋友的提点，想到了到互联网上面征婚，她也不知道如何操作，只是通过朋友给的一个比较流行的网站上面注册了。

更为不可思议的是，她基本上不懂英语，竟然想到嫁到国外去。

有趣的是她用的照片。当她把照片晒出来的时候，我们好几个女孩都觉得她放的照片不是很有个性，就是用摄像头把一张脸拍下来。照片那双无辜的大眼睛显得非常迷茫。一位比较年长的姐妹更加直接地告诉她，你这样的照片会招惹骗子，因为你的目光显得非常茫然，一副不知所谓的样子。虽然她还是乐于接受意见，但是我们大概心里面都会觉得她可能会经历很长一段时间的寻寻觅觅，毕竟她显得毫无头绪，毫无准备，而且还想去大洋彼岸找丈夫，这真有点......不过我心里还是非常赞赏她的直率，真诚和勇敢的。

然而不久前我听到了她的一些消息。于是昨天晚上我和她联系上了。我们互问近况。她原来正在筹备和美国的未婚夫的团聚。这个真让我愕然了。是什么让这跨越时空，跨越国界的事情轻而易举地发生了？

这本来就不算是什么新闻，神奇的是她的未婚夫，一位在美国政府工作的华人，竟然才和她在网上聊了四天就飞过来看她了，这一激动人心的时刻到来之际，他们一见钟情，并跟所有的爱情故事的美满结局一样，他们决定相守一生。

我们又谈到了她的照片，她确定说自己其实只放了一张。她说：”他喜欢我真实的面孔，一双迷茫的大眼睛非常真诚。网上好些个放艺术照，或者扭捏作态的让他感觉很不可靠。“很有趣，人们有时候总是把寻找伴侣的事情想得过于复杂，过于技巧化，从她的例子可以看出来，其实没有任何的技巧才是真正的技巧。我这位女朋友的真诚和真实感动了远在大洋彼岸的绅士，并成为他们婚姻的纽带。

不管通过什么途径，有的人会把自己最好的一面展示在别人面前，甚至是最理想的一面，而不是最真实的一面。人们看到的仅仅是你极力表现的最理想的一面。然而婚姻生活不是谈理想，有的是真实和平淡。因为一切的浪漫前奏过后，我们面对的是平平凡凡，真真实实，相濡以沫的生活。这种夫妻生活不是一袭华丽的睡袍，而是吃咸鱼和白菜也有滋有味的相持相守的过程。而这种生活恰恰是她想要的，也是大部分中国女人想要的。于是她找到一个和她过日子，并相守终身的人。

所以,这事情非常有趣。