Encountering beauty邂逅美好

I have a question for you, what do you live for? In fact, alive for hundreds of thousands of reasons, some people live for getting money, getting happiness and bitterness from there, some people live for enjoying life, enjoying happiness; some people live for others, they do not want to live for their own ,but for all other people who they know, or even who they do not  know, their survival, perhaps driving the other, after all, we are not a person; I live for encountering, in the long long life, I often inadvertently encounter the good people and things, beautiful people and things far more than the ugly people and things. This allows me to get inspired, get the courage and get the strength and also a good reason to live in.

April 15, 2012,what I met.

Today is Sunday and I just returned from Shamian Island's Christian Church, It is the end of Mass,I was walking on the street of Shamian, along the way, my girlfriend and I found a few interesting foreigners, including a woman pushing a baby carriages, and there was a happy chinese baby girl, and another man holding a cute chinese little girl with thick legs. On the road, the loving father want to take a photo for the little daughter,ask her: "smile." The little girl seemed very shy,shook her  two little pigtail, very cute, very happy.

Later we went into the Ruth restaurant, my girlfriend was very curious, but courageous,she went to their table and talked to them,so she later understood their situation, and took some photos for them with her half-baked English.

In fact,they are kind-hearted people come from the United States.

This  American gentlemen took the initiative to mention this little daughter  was the seventh chinese child he adopted, she has been eight years old, but she might have never grown up,still keep her three-year-old look, which is why her legs look so stout. However, this did not affect her happiness, she has such a loving father.



This  American lady also made people moving, she is very proud and happy, because she adopted a chinese child with cleft lip. Cleft lip may not strange for people, because the actress Faye Wong's daughter, who is Cleft lip also, "cleft lip", also known as Quezui, hare-lip, oral and maxillofacial common congenital malformations. An average of 700 babies per birth, there is a risk of cleft lip. I thought this baby is unfortunate but also fortunate.

In these circumstances, children, father, mother, it seemed solidified in my tearful eyes, In long-term busy and rushing times, I forgot moved, and also forget the beautiful. Thanked them, I encountered beauty again, thanked them ,from the outside of the church, I accepted the baptism of love again.

Just because there is such a great love, making the good reasons for people living in the world.

我有一个问题想问您，您为什么而活着？其实人活着有千千万万个理由，有的人活着一辈子就是为了自己得到金钱，在钱里得到快乐和辛酸，或者有的人为了自己享受生命，享受快乐；有的人或者为了别人而活着，他们觉得人有时候不只是为了自己活着的，是为了一切认识，甚至不认识的人活着的，他们的生存，也许正带动着其他，毕竟，我们不是一个人；我活着是为了邂逅，在长长的一生中，我经常不经意地邂逅生活中美好的人和事，而美好的人和事远远多于丑恶的人和事。这使得我得到感召，得到勇气，得到力量。

2012年4月15日，我邂逅了什么。

今天是星期天，我刚从广州沙面岛的基督教堂结束了弥撒，走在沙面大街上，沿路上我和我女朋友发现了几位有趣的外国人，其中一位女士推着一辆婴儿车，上面坐着一个快乐的中国女婴，另一位男士挽着一个腿部非常粗壮的中国小女孩。在路上，这位慈爱的父亲还要给小女儿拍照：smile。小女孩非常扭捏地摇摇两根小辫子，非常可爱，非常快乐。

后来我们一起进入了露丝餐馆，我的女朋友非常好奇，勇敢地过去和他们攀谈，用她那半生不熟的英语了解到他们的情况，并且拍下了照片。

原来他们都是来自美国的善心人。

这位男士主动提及这个小女儿是他领养的第七个中国孩子，她已经八岁了，但是看起来她可能永远不会长高了，她现在还是三四岁的样子，这是为什么她是腿部看起来那么粗壮的原因。然而这丝毫不影响她的快乐，她有那么一位充满爱心的父亲。

这位领养女婴的外国妈妈也同样让人感动，她显得非常自豪和快乐，因为她收养了一个有唇腭裂的孩子。大家对唇腭裂也许不会陌生，因为女明星王菲的女儿就是这样的。唇腭裂即“兔唇”，又称缺嘴、豁嘴，是口腔颌面部常见的先天性畸形。平均每生700个婴儿中就有1个患唇腭裂。我想这个女婴即是不幸也是幸运的。

此情此景，孩子们，父亲，母亲似乎凝固在我的泪眼婆娑中，长期的忙碌和奔波使得我忘却了感动，忘却了美好。感谢他们，使我再次邂逅美好，感谢他们，使我从教堂外得到爱的洗礼。正是因为有如此伟大的爱，使得人们活着有充分的理由。